I'm writing this the day after my first session with Jennifer, and I'm sitting on a sore bottom! I have to admit that I've looked at Jennifer's site off and on for months before finally getting up the courage to send in an application, and like everyone else who has seen her, I'm so glad I did!
I went to see Jennifer for a cathartic or stress-relief spanking. I didn't necessarily feel the need for a disciplinarian--I'm the person that everyone thinks is calm and in control of life. I also tend to hold a lot of stress inside and don't know how to let it out. Because I wasn't looking for a "life coach" per se, or someone to help me set goals, I didn't know if Jennifer would see me or not, but I'm so glad she did!
I still can't completely articulate my reasons for wanting to be spanked, but the need had been building up in me for quite a long time, and I finally got up the courage to send in an application. I was worried about privacy, about the fact that the spanking would hurt, and I was wondering if I was just plain crazy for wanting to do this. The day of the spanking, I was so incredibly nervous, but I made it to the hotel and finally met Jennifer. She's as warm and easy to talk to as everyone says. I feel like she is a very intuitively empathetic person.
We talked for a while and then it was time to get down to business. She started to spank me with her hand and I have to say that it hurt much more than I expected! What really surprised me though is that I started to cry and I cried pretty much the entire way through my spanking. I wasn't crying because of the pain, but I was finally able to let out some of my bottled up emotions. She used several implements on me, and at times it hurt a lot! I survived, and as everyone else has said--my spanking was nothing that I couldn't handle. I definitely appreciate her attention to hygiene and the condition of my skin, and she handled everything extremely well. I have some bruising, but other than that, I'm not the worse for it!
I felt so much better and lighter after she'd finished. I don't know why I want/need to be spanked periodically, but I know that I'll be back again. Thank you Jennifer for being such a kind and caring person. I know you've helped a lot of other people, and you've definitely helped me!
If you’re worried about having a low pain threshold, don’t be! I’d listened to podcasts and having heard other sessions, was extremely nervous about whether or not I’d be able to handle it. I rated my pain tolerance as a 3.5 on the application, and I was just fine. Jennifer is an expert at pushing you to YOUR limits—not someone else’s. :-)
Jen is amazing! If you are considering a life coach/disciplinarian, she’s the one.
A little about me.
My life has been spiraling out of control for a while. I am college educated, I’m a mom and I have a full time career. From the outside, it looks like I have it together. However, I don’t.
I’ve worked with other disciplinarians in the past but didn’t make much progress getting to where I want to be in life. I lost motivation. I gave up and quit trying.
A few months ago, after some self-reflection I decided to look for another life coach. I wasn’t really sure if I was going to go the disciplinarian route but I was sure that I needed some guidance.
I started the web search for a life coach. I didn’t really find anything or anyone that I could relate to. I added disciplinarian to the search. I came across Miss Jen’s website and started reading. After going through the website and reading the forum. I decided to fill out an application. A couple of days later, I received the email saying that she wanted to see me, I didn’t know how to feel. Was I really going to go down this road again? Was it even worth it? Was I going to be at all successful? Was she going to decide my issues were too much and not want to work with me? I had all of these things going through my head at the same time. It was too late to back out now. My first session was a couple short weeks away.
The day of my session came and I was full of anxiety. I thought about backing out a number of times throughout the day. I’m so glad that I didn’t. We talked for a long time. She was so easy to talk to. She made me feel comfortable and allowed me to feel like I could be totally honest about what was going on in my life and why I was there. She was understanding and compassionate. There wasn’t even a hint of judgment in her voice. I could have gone on talking all night. Then came the spanking part. Ouch is all I can say about that except it was exactly what I needed.
Since my first session two months ago, I have made more progress than I have in a very long time. I am motivated and committed. She has provided so much guidance and kept me on track. I know that I am going to be successful this time. I am feeling good about my successes and look forward to finally becoming the person I want to be. I am so grateful for Miss Jen. I don’t know what I would do without her.
San Francisco 2019
If you are on the fence about sending in an application DON"T BE! Send. it. in. You will not regret it. I am a professional single mom with a stressful job struggling to keep everything together. I felt like my life was chaotic and unorganized. And it was affecting every aspect of my life. I tried several times to get back on track, I'd do great for a while and then stop. I knew I couldn't do it on my own. I don't even remember how I found Miss Jenn's website but it took me a couple of months to decide this is what I needed. I completed the application and sent it in. Less than 24 hours later I recieved an email that she wanted to see me for two hours...in less than a week. I was so nervous but strangely excited. I knew this was the first step in changing my life. I had my first session, and first ever spanking, with Miss Jenn almost three weeks ago. When I arrived at her room I was so nervous I could barely talk. Miss Jenn was great at calming me down and before I knew it, we had been talking for two hours. I thought I was going to get out of the spanking since we were out of time. No such luck. The spanking hurt, there were a few times it hurt really bad but it was nothing I couldn't handle. When it was over, I knew I made the right decision. Miss Jenn has given me rules to follow and goals to met and the accountability to not quit. I'm scheduled for my second two hour session in just over a week. I know there will be less talking and more spanking this time but I also know that's what I need to continue the progress I've already made. i know with regular monthly sessions, Miss Jenn will be able to help me get my happy, productive life back.
Never in a million years did I imagine I would ever meet an unknown person in a hotel to get my *** spanked! That being said meeting Jen was one of my better decisions and I absolutely have no regrets. I am a little late in writing this, but I’ve been struggling about what to say that hasn’t already been said and I’m not the most elegant writer.
I was very nervous about this whole process but as soon as I met Jen and we started talking I immediately started to feel more relaxed. You could say I was almost comfortable by the time the spanking was going to start…almost 😉 (come on my butt was about to be spanked for the 1st time ever so I think being completely comfortable was out of the question). I’m currently in a grueling school program and I’m not sure if I would still be in the program without Jen’s support (and I can’t believe I’m going to say this but the rules I have as well). She believes in me when I have trouble believing in myself. I’m glad I didn’t back out and highly recommend anyone on the fence to fill out an application.