F.A.Q.

Question:

Miss Jennifer, how do you decide what implements to pack when traveling?

Answer:

What implements I decide to take with me depend on who I am seeing, what all the different types of implements they are requesting and/or wanting but most importantly what I think will be best for them this time when I see them. That is how I decide what to take.

I have 3 trunks full of implements  all given to me as a gift.  I try to change my implements around each month to give different sensations as I see many people every month.

 

Question:

Miss Jennifer, how old are your pictures?

Answer:

Some are old and some are current.   I look exactly the same.  I’ve been told I look even better live than in pictures because honestly  I am NOT a good picture taker.

I really hate taking pictures of myself.

When time permits… I do try to  add new photos :)

 

Question:

Miss Jennifer, what kind of gifts do you like to receive?

Answer:

Gift certificates from:

Amazon

Whole Foods

Traders Joe

canes, looped canes (butt beater), all kinds of paddles, straps, tawses, &  all sorts of brushes

 

Question:

Miss Jennifer, can I buy your worn panties, bras or stockings?

Answer:

Are you  freaking crazy?!?!!?   GROSS!!! HECK NO!!!! I am a Professional Disciplinarian NOT some cheap SLUTTY girl trying to make any bucks she possibly can!  IF YOU THOUGHT ABOUT ASKING THEN YOU ARE AT THE WRONG SITE!!!!  LEAVE MY SITE NOW!!!!!  I DO NOT WANT YOU HERE!!

Question:

Miss Jennifer, whenever you come to my city.  Can I have my session at my home?

Answer:

No I can not.  You will have to come to me. No exception.

Question:

Miss Jennifer, why don’t you have sessions in a dungeon?

Answer:

I am a Disciplinarian not a Domme or a Mistress. 

I will never have sessions in a dungeon. That is not my cup of tea.

Do you want to know why?

I'm a neat and a germ freak! I have to have things very CLEAN and NEAT for myself and for all the people I see.

Safety is extremely important for myself and for all the people I see.  I want them to come to a safe and a classy area and not at a sketchy place/area!! 

I am into domestic scenes. True disciplinarians only have their sessions in a domestic area.

If you must have a session in a dungeon and that is important to you, then please go elsewhere for that kind as I have plenty of people who ONLY wants  to have their session is a domestic, safe and classy area.

Also, please do not email me about special offers or a free use of your dungeon.  I am NOT interested at all!

Question:

Miss Jennifer where do you have all of your sessions?

Answer:

I only have them in a 4 to 6 star hotel.  

Question:

Miss Jennifer, I would like to give you a free makeover on your website. Are you interested? 

Answer:

NO thank you.  I’ve designed my website all alone and I do not want someone to touch or mess with it.  It is my work and my inner thoughts.  I want to keep it that way.  It may be plain/simple, not really flashy, or not perfect but it's all mine. I created it the way it fits me.

Question:

Miss Jennifer,

I am a professional photographer and would like to offer you a free service.

Answer:

Thank you. I do appreciate the wonderful offer but I only allow one photographer to take my pic.

Question:

Miss Jennifer,

Are any of your pictures photoshopped to alter your look?

Answer:

No way.  I look at it this way.  If you alter your pics and then when the people come and see you for a session they will notice that you are not the same as the pic…  I mean how embarrassing is that?!?!? 

 

Question:

Miss Jennifer,

What kind of man are you attracted to?

Answer:

Exciting & Fun but a gentleman

Intelligent (He has to be way smarter than me)

Strong (He has to be super strong or he won’t be able to handle me..Haha)

Independent

Patient

Not selfish

Hard worker 

Competitive

Tall

Not a lot of hair except on your head. haha

Takes care of himself 

Financially and emotionally stable

Who is sweet and caring

Keeps his promises

Not greedy

Loves me unconditionally

Pays attention to me

Wants to give me the world

Does not drive a sports car.  (God I hate sports cars)

Does not smoke of any kind

Does not drink

Does not take drugs that is illegal or drugs that is not necessary

Does not have a super hot temper

Likes to enjoy life and have fun

Not a jock but rather a cute nerd

Loves to cook with me

Food junkie like me

Loves to travel

Loves to explore and try new things

Likes to play card games, board games n games on the phone.

Loves to exercise, hike, fish, take walks, watch movies, go on a picnic, likes to go shopping, loves to see shows, likes to be funny/silly and not always serious

Can carry a interesting conversation as I get bored easily

Wears glasses 

Not the jealous type

Supports and understands my profession.

Travels like me

Is there such a guy?

Question:

Miss Jennifer,

Could you please help me learn to become a disciplinarian like you?

Answer:

No.  I cannot teach you to become a disciplinarian.  If you have to ask me or anyone else how to become one…well you need to find a different profession.  Ok you guys probably think I’m rude.

Think about it.  Can someone train or teach a random person to become a spankee?  Well what make you think a disciplinarian is any different? 

Question:

Can I use a fake email address? What if my email bounces?

Answer:

Absolutely Not!  Fake emails are not allowed on my site.  I can check to see if your email is real and if it bounces, I will delete your account.

Question: 

How long will my account/membership stay active?

Answer:

For now I am purging all accounts that are not active for a year (in the month they are opened at the end of that month).  I would like this to be an active community so that may change (shorten) at any time. 

Question:

Answer:

Are you serious???? You want to learn how to spank?  You can’t learn.  You just have to be born with it.  I just know how to do it.

I can’t explain.  I just now when I need to spank more or less. It’s just a feeling I get.  If you don’t have that feeling well then you will never know what’s too much or too little. When you need to stop or to continue. Some people say I know because I can read peoples body. Well that’s not true because I have many spankees who act like a dead fish.  It doesn’t matter how much it hurts or how hard I spank…they will stay still and not say a word. I even have some who will have a conversation with me about food and cooking while I’m giving him a punishment type session. Trust me its not because it didn’t hurt.  That's just him.  That’s how he is.  Freddie I’m talking about u. haha

 I have some spankees who I barely touch and they would start screaming, wiggling, n try to hide their bottom but that does not mean I spanked that person too much or too hard.  So you see you cannot go by body reaction or what the spankee says.  I just have to know. It’s a feeling I get…. And this can’t be taught. 

Miss J

Question:

Can we trade services?

Answer:

No thank you. Please do not ask me this question.  I will not change my mind.

Question:

Can I see your face?  

Answer:

OMG!! No.  Impossible.

I live a very normal vanilla life like you and I keep my profession extremely discreet.

The only way you can see my face is if you have a live session with me.

Question:

Am I allowed to have a happy ending?

Answer:

Listen, I am a Professional Disciplinarian not a Call Girl, ESCORT GIRL or a PROSTITUTE.  So the answer is ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY NOT!!!!  Go somewhere else for that kind of CRAP!!!!

Question:

Do you switch?  Meaning would you ever allow someone to spank you?

Answer:

NO NO NO!!!! I am NOT a switch! I am 100% a NATURAL TOP!  I was born to SPANK not the other way around.

So please do not ask me if I am interested.

Question:

Do you offer anything else besides spanking?

Answer:

No I do not.  A real Disciplinarian do not offer anything else but ONLY SPANKING.

Question:

Can I take you out on a date?

Answer:

That is so sweet of you but NO thank you.  I have STRICT rules about that. I do not mix work and personal life no matter what!!!

Question:

Do I call you Miss Jennifer,  Miss Jen or Miss J?

Answer:

If you happened to see me out in public or calling me in a public area...please do not call me Miss Jennifer, Miss Jen or Miss J.  Please just call me Jennifer or Jen. In private you can call me Miss Jennifer, Miss Jen, Miss J, Jennifer or Jen.  I do not like to be called Ma'am, Miss or Mistress.

Question:

Do you do OTK?

Answer:

Of course silly ;)  The only way I would not do OTK is if you tell me you do not want a OTK.

Question:

Do you spank with your hands?

Answer:

Of course I do. I spank everyone with my bare hands unless you specifically tell me that you do not want a bare hand spanking.

Question:

Do you have a safeword?

Answer:

No I do not. I give a real spanking.

If you have a safeword you have the control. Not me. You can stop the spanking anytime.  How is that a real spanking?  I only give real spankings.

Question:

Are you Hispanic?

Answer:

No, I am not.  I am Korean. Petite Korean. hehehe  Oh Yeah and NO I am NOT from North Korea LOL.  I am Americanized Korean (haha) if you were curious and haven't figured that out by now.  

Question:

How much do you charge to show you around the city when you are here?

Answer:

Oh my gosh, I would NEVER charge anyone. That sweet person is going out of their way to show me their city.  I am only happy that they would make time to show me around.  That is so sweet and thoughtful.  Honestly I do not go to different cities hoping 

that someone will show me around.  I travel to spank and when I do have time...I would go sight seeing alone or sometimes Robbie would meet me at a certain city and we would sight see or do touristy things.

Question:

Can I be invited to your Blog even though I have never seen you for a session?

Answer:

Anyone can access my Blog. 

Question:

What do people post on the forum and how do I get get invited?

Answer:

It is where people can post just about anything (It does NOT have to be only about spanking), comment on other peoples posts, or just read others posts and comments.

It is totally anonymous.  You sign up to my website and I will ask you few simple questions and then you will be approved. It is super easy :)

Question:

I have never seen you.  How do I apply for a session?

Answer:

You must first sign up to my website and then login.  Go to the page called Application which is under the SESSIONS TAB.  Click the icon, fill it out and email it back to me to start the process. Please remember to attach the  completed application.  I should respond to your application within 1 day to 2 weeks, depending  on my busy traveling and spanking schedule.  I will do my best to respond within a week. 

Question:

I have seen you before but it has been over 2 years.  Do I still need to complete another application?

Answer:

Yes you do.  If its less than a year then you do not have to complete another application.

Question:

Do you spank females?

Answer:

Of course I do. More than half of the people I see are females.

Question:

Do you offer therapeutic spanking or spank therapy?

Answer:

Yes I do. I do those types of spanking daily

Question:

Do you offer sensual spanking?

Answer:

No. I only give REAL spankings.

Question:

What is your cancellation policy?

Answer:

IF YOU CANCEL WITHIN 14 DAYS OF A SESSION YOU LOSE THE DEPOSIT AND OWE ME THE BALANCE OF THE SESSION TRIBUTE, REGARDLESS of circumstance (I know life happens).  Please understand, I do NOT make LAST MINUTE SESSIONS, when you cancel I have already paid the AIRFARE and SESSION LOCATION.

 

NOTE:  For first timers, this is a big step for someone who has never had a session (and you are understandably nervous).  Until you are 100% certain and are ready for a session, please do not send me an application and schedule a session because when you do you made a commitment to me as I have to you and I hate being let down as I am sure you do too.

Question:

When should I send my deposit?

Answer:

For first timers, a deposit should be sent within 48 hours of application approval or your appointment is cancelled - I will let you know the amount when we chat. For repeats or regulars, you should send in the deposit as soon as you decide you want a session.  We can discuss the date and time later, remember if we cannot agree on a location and date then I will refund the deposit within 30 days, minus any fees (Quick Pay, Zelle or PayPal only - Gift card deposits are non-refundable).  However, once we agree on a time, the deposit is non-refundable and if you cancel in less than 14 days, the deposit is forfeited and you owe me the balance.  By 14 days before a session I have already booked the hotel and flight...actually I likely booked it 30 days before the session, but I am trying to be accommodating, please provide me the same respect.

Question:

Can I have the password for My Schedule?

Answer:

I am sorry but it is exclusively for my people who are my regulars (Those are people who have seen me at least two times for a session). For the rest of you, you can see my schedule  by  clicking CLICK HERE.  This is for people who I have not seen before but want to know when (what month) I am going to their city or country.

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